Episodes

A year ago I announced I was starting a podcast. What some people don't know is that my brother Donnie gives me the courage to speak my mind. In this episode I'm baring my soul about losing my brother. As this grief is still fresh, I share the rollercoaster of our relationship, my guilt and regrets, realizing the very things that would drive me crazy are now cherished memories. This episode is a raw, unfiltered journey through sibling love, a tribute to the impact Donnie had on my life. If gr...

What if Thanksgiving doesn't have to be a full-throttle, joy-filled celebration? What if it's okay to shuffle the traditions, to feel a little less than festive, especially when you're wrestling with grief or loneliness? This episode is a heart-to-heart conversation, acknowledging that it's absolutely fine to have an 'Unhappy' Thanksgiving. We challenge the idea that gratitude must be monumental, instead, inviting you to celebrate the seemingly small things you are grateful for. And above all,...

In honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, lets shine a light on the often unspoken and deeply sensitive topic of abuse, especially concerning surviving Widows of domestic violence. We explore the intricate layers of grief and healing that these survivors go through, and how their journey to recovery differs from traditional widowhood. These brave women may experience relief and even happiness after their loss, emotions that can be challenging to understand from the outside. It's a reminder th...

When we lose someone we love, we're often told that the first year is the hardest. But what happens when that first year is over, and we're still grappling with the void that person has left behind? After the first year Widows may find themselves feeling increasingly alone in their grief. Yet amidst the pain, there is hope and healing. As always, Widow Your Way ❤️ Enjoying the podcast? Leave a review and subscribe to continue this journey with me! I absolutely love hearing from listeners. Co...

In this episode I have a candid conversation with Divorcee, Josie Falcon of the Heavy Pages Podcast, and what unfolded was truly eye-opening! We found ourselves marveling at the similarities between the journeys of Widows and Divorcees. The only difference was my husband is dead and hers is not! While the circumstances of widowhood and divorce are unique, the emotional rollercoaster that follows is surprisingly alike. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that loss is painful for everyone...

Grief is a universal, yet deeply personal experience. Like many of you, I've had my fair share of losses and not just from people dying. So for me it's not about comparing losses, but about acknowledging that each loss hits differently for each person. They all hurt in their own way. So why do we compare our grief to others? We are not here to compare scars; we're here to learn how to cope with our feelings. We should be supporting each other through the pain, no matter what form the loss is in...

Are you ready to hear the unfiltered thoughts that often whirl in a widow's head? Lets talk about the cliché comments and thoughtless questions that are often thrown at widows. You know the ones: "How are you doing?", "They are in a better place", the list goes on. I'm going to give you authentic responses many widows may harbor and are just too polite to say outload. Just wait until you hear the most insensitive question asked! This episode is a gentle reminder that finding the right words t...

Have you ever wondered about the many ways grief can impact your life, not just emotionally but physically? Losing a partner is one of life's most challenging experiences, and as widows, it's easy to neglect our own well-being while navigating this overwhelming grief. Join me for a raw and honest conversation of how grief not only impacts one's mind, but the body as well. Through my own story, I hope to inspire you and remind you that self-care, however small, is a crucial part of healing from ...

Few of us truly grasp the financial devastation Widows may face following the death of a spouse. In this episode we shed light on the realities of Widows having to adapt to a single income or no income at all. We discuss the misconception about everyone having life insurance and the tough choices that must be made to adapt to a new financial situation. However, it's not all grim. This conversation also uncovers ways we can lend our support to widows, both financially and emotionally. Perhaps yo...

As a widow, I needed a roadmap to navigate the chaos of grief. There were no clear steps, no printed guide, but I made it through the darkest times - and my experiences can help you, too. This episode is a raw exploration of my journey through the stages of grief. I share my struggles with acceptance, my evolving beliefs about the afterlife, and my quest for understanding the nature of death. In this emotional journey through widowhood, we also examine the confusion surrounding the stages of gr...

What if being a widow was less about holding a marriage certificate and more about the journey of healing and self-identification? What about those who have lost a significant other but never had the 'husband' or 'wife' title? This episode is dedicated to challenging the traditional definitions and understanding of widowhood. Lets recognize the the complex web of scenarios that stretch beyond the dictionary - women who were in committed relationships but not legally married. Lets propose a new ...

Ever felt misunderstood in your grief? Tired of the stereotypes and judgments that come your way as a widow? Well, Season 3 of Love is Not Dead is officially granting you permission to grieve in your own damn way. As your host and fellow widow, Rebecca, I'm here to provide a safe haven for you, where we can share our stories, challenge age-old misconceptions and erase discrimination from within and outside our community. Get ready as we tackle topics that you, our listeners, have suggested. Exp...